It all makes sense now. I had forgotten that chat I had with her those many weeks ago where I eluded to the fact that I was uncomfortable sharing too much because it might end up being something that she had to hold back from NG about. I don’t like certain people knowing too much and NG is for some reason one of them. The fact that there’s been some sort of pull back is indicative of some subconscious click in her head that would have been “him over her”. Which is completely logical and would be understandable for the most part.
It just goes to show that there is no such thing as no judgement. Everyone judges. One way or another. We all just have the power to act or not act on that judgement.